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Guilty

The definition of guilt is: an experience that occurs when a person believes that they have violated a moral standard.  My working definition is:  the bad feeling a person has when they believe they should be doing something else. So many people seem to carry around guilt as a badge of honor.  When they’re at work, they feel they should be at home, when they’re at home they feel they should devote more time to work.  The operable word here is “should”. Whenever you use “should” you’re not taking responsibility for your own choices.  Somehow you’re giving your power to… Continue reading

Shape the Future

shapethefutureJanuary has been devoted to creating a plan, setting goals, knowing who you are and forging ahead.  There is one more element to shaping your future, getting what you want and achieving all you set out to achieve – ATTITUDE.

Your attitude is what ultimately determines if you achieve your goals or if you fall short.  You can’t fake it.  You can’t pretend everything is okay.  Your attitude colors the world around you.  It makes you believe what you want to believe.

If you believe that your best days are ahead of you, then you’ll… Continue reading

Guilty

The definition of guilt is: an experience that occurs when a person believes that they have violated a moral standard.  My working definition is:  the bad feeling a person has when they believe they should be doing something else.

So many people seem to carry around guilt as a badge of honor.  When they’re at work, they feel they should be at home, when they’re at home they feel they should devote more time to work.  The operable word here is “should”.

Whenever you use “should” you’re not taking responsibility for your own choices.  Somehow… Continue reading